How to Give Feedback that People Will Listen to If we want to grow as people，we can't just rely on our own evaluation of how we're doing.（1）BBReceiving feedback from peers（同辈）can help us see the bigger picture and show us a path forward to success.However，someone has to give that feedback，and sometimes，that someone will be you.How should you approach this？
First，if you spot a situation in which some feedback would be helpful，give it as soon as you can.If you wait until the matter fades from the person's mind they might not understand what you're trying to tell them.（2）AA
When you're giving feedback，it's important to keep in mind that no one likes to be told they're doing a bad job.（3）FFLike the saying goes，"A spoonful of sugar helps the medicine go down."
All good feedback shares a few key elements.First，it should help accomplish a specific goal.It's less useful to tell your friend that their dish tastes "interesting" than it is to suggest adding a little salt to improve the flavor.Feedback should also look toward the future.（4）EETell your friend they should take more notes in class instead of talking about how they should have studied harder for the big biology exam they failed.
（5）DD If someone said that you were boring in your speech，would you know how to fix it？Being told you should add a funny story at the end is a lot easier to put into practice.
Finally，don't assume your suggestion is the only correct way to deal with a situation.Consider other points of view and keep your ego（自我）under control.You might even end up with some feedback on your feedback.Don't take it personally -it can only help you give better advice next time！
A.Feedback should be clear and well timed，or it's likely to be ignored.
B.We also need to know what other people think about our performance.
C.This can help you be successful in your role and clear the way for promotion.
D.To make your feedback more useful，it should focus on the action，not the person.
E.You can't change what's happened，but you can prevent it from happening.
F.Make sure you give an equal amount of positive feedback to balance out anything negative.
G.While positive feedback is necessary，it is also important to let others know their mistakes.
【考点】人与自我．
【答案】B；A；F；E；D
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